Anilingus-Anal Sex

What is anilingus?

Anilingus is to pleasure to have anal sex with other person. In the anus is half of the nervous completions of the pelvic zone, and some sexually find stimulating to touch it. In anilingus it is necessary to have well-taken care of: in the anus and the rectum there are substances can be inoffensive in the final part of the digestive system, but which they can cause damage to the health if they arrive at the mouth, to the stomach, including within the vagina. Making anilingus or well anal sex with a swinger person you expose yourself to a variety of bacterial infections.

The pleasure in anal sex can have to many factors. Some people enjoy to experience new sensations to leave the routine. The sensations when you have anal sex is unique. In the rectum are many nervous completions, that at the being stimulated, can get to cause strong sensations. For the men, the prostate can be an intense source of pleasing. And for the penis, the anal sphincter can get to be a new and intense sensation to enjoy.

Anilingus would not have to cause pain. If it hurts, is because they are making it bad. With sufficient lubricant and patience, it is possible to get to enjoy anal sex. But to some people it can whom never they like, reason why if your pair does not want, you do not try to force it to that it likes.

What do you need for anal sex?

Mainly: lubricant, condom, and patience. You do not buy anything that makes from oils. Make sure that the lubricant is “compatible with condom”. If he is not compatible to not it is going you to serve. The oily lubricants as the petroleum jelly or the oil of baby is going to destroy condom long before who you finish. In addition the oily substances can form a layer on the natural covering of the rectum, facilitating the appearance of infections.

Although you are sure that your partner don't have diseases, equal you would have to use condom. In the rectum there are many bacterial infectious that can cause to infections of the skin or uretritis. In addition it helps later to clean yourself.

How you prepared ourselves for anal sex?

Patience is the third thing that you need to make anal sex possible. The initial penetration is always the most difficult part in anal sex. The sphincter can be controlled partially, since it is also under the control of reflections due to the stimuli that receive. Your pair must relax, and you have to go slowly so that it allows you that the anus relaxes the sufficient thing so that receives to your penis.

Begin with a finger or a fine sex toy. The sex toy can be more realistic, but your fingers can feel better than they do within the rectum. Pull a finger slowly, allowing that your pair feels comfortable. Acquittal your finger totally, and come back to put it. Give to the anus time so that he is accustomed to that type of activity. Soon put two fingers. With two fingers usually it is obtained that the anus receives comfortably to your penis.

What positions you must use in anal sex?

This question can be of much importance. Many women prefer to be above, to regulate that so fast it happens the penetration. Others prefer to lie you exceed their bellies, or to crouch themselves assuming the position of 4, or to be penetrated while they are fell down of door. Choose the position that is better for you before beginning.

Possibly the moment will arrive at which the anus relaxes sufficient so that your penis between totally. If your pair is completely relaxed, it does not have to hurt. Now that you are inside it does not mean that you can pump like a crazy person. It hopes to that the body of your pair adjusts. Possibly both they are going to be ready for more.

If during a swinger dating you have anal sex or anilingus in a they want to continue with vaginal penetration, must make sure that the penis is clean. Avoid to penetrate immediately to the anus and to the vagina without to clean your penis because in the next days these organs can appear with vaginal infections.

Can you become pregnant having anal sex?

It is technically impossible to become pregnant by anal penetration, since any way does not exist for semen that it takes it from the rectum towards the vagina. But, anal sex is not a good contraceptive method. Semen can to spill from anus through (the small strip of skin which it separates vulva of the anus), to enter the vagina and to produce a pregnancy.